Do you like surprises? Or are you one of those people who likes to know everything in advance?  My husband isn't one for surprise parties or large crowds where he is the center of attention.  He prefers the more intimate settings with a few people.  I made the mistake when we were first married of planning him a surprise birthday party.  I'll never forget what he said when we climbed in the car to go home. I love you more than life itself and I appreciate all the work it took for you to do this for me, but please [...]